Im ArGIS user for couple years, and I found that 3D in ArcGIS is more analytical than visualization
working in 3D visualization, I think better you grab software like City Engine (bought by ESRI now) or anykind of software that pointing on 3d visualization
I have a tutorial how to work with Sketchup and ArcGIS Arcscene , but its indonesian language, but I translate it from another English tutorial , I will post it here the links
Interoperability between CAD and GIS is a big problem until now, exchange data between those two platform really troublesome, and even the best interoperability software available (I use FME from Safe Software) still far from perfect, IMHO
regards,